Independent play isn't lazy parenting

It's one of the most powerful things you can do for your baby's development

Research shows babies need two key things to thrive: responsive care, and time to direct their own exploration.

Baby-Led Play is the simple daily rhythm that gives them both. And when you know how to adapt it as they grow? Developmental magic.

THIS IS FOR YOU IF...

You have a baby anywhere from newborn to 12 months old
You care SO MUCH about giving your baby what they need but feel like it's got to be less complicated and intense than social media makes it seem
You'd love a simple, clear plan that will not just help your baby meet milestones on time, BUT ALSO supports the development of their attention span, problem-solving, self-direction, and all the other traits you value
You want to truly enjoy your relationship with your baby- not just feel pressure, anxiety or exhaustion from trying to do it all

So what exactly is

Baby-Led Play?

Baby-Led Play is a daily "rhythm" based on what research shows babies need most for development: connection and time for their own self-directed exploration (aka independent play).

Baby-Led Play is easy to launch with the P.L.A.Y. Framework

P

P is for Preparation

Set up your home environment so baby is motivated to explore and build skills

L

L is for Lead with Connection

Start with engagement to fuel the confidence to explore

A

A is for Allow for Autonomy

Responsively support independent play time (and have time for you!)

Y

Y is for Yield to Reality

Let go of the things you can't control & learn how to adapt to what you can

What other moms said about Baby-Led Play:

I do feel much more clarity, competence, and confidence. I am a first time mom and deal with a lot of anxiety and self-doubt in general. And that has definitely shown up in parenting. There's so much information online and it often is confusing and conflicting. It also makes me second-guess my instincts and intuition. This course helped me gain a grounded approach to showing up for my baby through connection and independent baby led play.

Jess

Mom to 4 month old

I was totally blown away by the quality of the information you provided, the actionable items, and how engaging you are. I feel way less guilty for not talking to her and "teaching her" every second. I feel confident that she is getting what she needs. I feel calm about being in rhythm with her knowing now that downtime is key to integration.

Diane

mom to 9 month old

Thank you. I just finished the last replay. My LO is 11 weeks old. I am so grateful I bumped into your profile. So much wisdom thank you very much for offering this. You're amazing.

Luisa

mom to 11 week old

I've changed the way I play with her. I used to sit down and constantly engage but now during playtime, I often sit next to her and just watch her play independently. It's wonderful to see her entertaining herself.

Johanna

mom of 4 month old

Hi there! I'm Alexis

I'm a mom and former teacher of 10 years who helps new parents support their baby's development & their bond more by doing less.

When my son Wyatt was born, I quickly saw that the same damaging “more is more" myth I’d experienced in education was alive and well in parenting too: that more teaching, more activities, and more engagement is somehow better.

But the truth? Research shows young children learn best through responsive relationships and their own-self directed exploration- not constant engagement or stimulation.

I'm tired of watching kids and adults struggle because of this myth. With Baby-Led Play, I'll show you how to confidently support your baby’s development and your relationship in a way that is actually better for everyone in the family.

Get the complete Baby-Led Play System

The framework to know what to do. The community so you never have to do it alone.

The PLAY Framework for 0-12 months (+ 12-18 month bonus!)

Bite-size audio and video lessons
Designed for a mom with a baby in her arms to quickly learn how to launch Baby-Led Play
The research woven into the lessons
You'll understand not just what to do but why so you have the insight to adapt everything to your baby
Environment setup guide
Exactly how to set up your baby's play space and optional types of toys or materials (you don't need much!) to unlock focus & independent play
Clear, quick, stage-based guidance
0-3, 3-6, 6-9 and 9-12 months so you know the simple ways research shows to support language, social-emotional and movement development at your baby's current stage during your connection time
12-18 month bonus chapter!
Carry your Baby-Led Play rhythm confidently into toddlerhood

Lifetime access to a community of support.

Guided implementation of Baby-Led Play!
Start alongside other moms in the same season so you can ask questions that come up along the way and see what others are doing!
Two live calls every month
Bring your specific questions (or submit them!) and get real answers for your unique baby
A community of like-minded moms
Celebrate wins, troubleshoot hard moments, and be reminded daily that you are not alone in this
Direct access to Alexis
A former teacher of 10 years with a Master's in Education and Montessori certification who built this framework because she lived the problem first
*The next cohort kicks off May 30th.
When you buy today you'll get instant access to all PLAYbook content and will join the PLAY Club at the start of the next live round!

Everything above for

$97

You're about to have instant access to everything you need to confidently support your baby's development AND your bond in these foundational months. I can't wait to meet you on the inside!

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Frequently Asked Questions

My baby is already several months old. Is it too late to start?

Not at all. The PLAYbook meets you exactly where your baby is right now, which is always the best time to start! Whatever stage you're in, there's guidance waiting for you — and the rhythm of Baby-Led Play works at any age in the first three years. If your baby is older and struggling to adapt to a new rhythm, our PLAY Club Community is the perfect place to get extra support.

My baby is a newborn. Isn't it too early for independent play?

Not at all — in fact the earlier you start the easier it is! Newborns are already wired to explore and the Baby-Led Play rhythm can begin in the very first month of life. Starting early means you build the rhythm before habits form in the other direction.

How is this different from what I can find for free on Instagram?

Instagram gives you individual tips and ideas with no framework connecting them — which is part of why it feels so overwhelming. The PLAYbook gives you one clear, research-backed system created by a teacher with degrees and credentials in elementary and early childhood education that tells you exactly what to do at your baby's specific stage and why. No more piecing things together from a dozen different sources.

How long will it take to go through?

The lessons are bite-sized and designed for a mom with a baby in her arms — most can be listened to or watched in under 10 minutes. You also have lifetime access so you can go through the content at your own pace and come back to it whenever your baby enters a new stage of development (or you have a new one!)

How do I access the PLAYbook after I buy?

You'll receive an email immediately after purchase with your login details. The PLAYbook lives in your own course hub that you can access from any device — phone, tablet or computer.

What if it doesn't work for my baby?

Baby-Led Play is built around following your baby's lead, which means it adapts to your baby's unique temperament and pace rather than asking your baby to adapt to a rigid system. You also get a month free in the PLAY Club where I (and other moms!) will help you get off to a successful start.

That said, if you go through the learning modules, attend the live call, and engage in the group and still don't feel like it met your expectations, you can request a full refund within 14 days.